Saturday, December 10, 2011
The Architect
He has been texting and calling, every day. I even tempted him to go get coffee, and he moved his schedule to meet me for a brief date. We are supposed to hang out on Sunday for date number three, which I believe will happen because he keeps referring to it as a positive thing. I am going to take a guess he is seeing other people, because he made the date for Sunday, not Friday or Saturday. Saturday is THE night for a date with someone. Although he seems like a hard worker, when it interferes with weekends, I get weary. His sense of humor is awesome. When we talk, I am always laughing. Humor indicates intelligence in a man, and can also mean people are on the save mental wave length. You have to be able to laugh together. We also have music, movies, and other small things in common.
I am trying to keep in mind the great qualities my best friends have, and searching for this in my ideal guy:
humor of course, intelligence, loves family, spiritual, healthy lifestyle, text and email humorous items, shopping, movies, wine, community (someone who is charitable), loves children, patient, sensitive, and positive.
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
A date in Target...
What made the date with the Cable Guy different and fun? I was discussing with him how I love doing laundry. I don't know what it is, the process is very soothing to me. I was explaining how I only like one detergent, Tide with Febreeze- it has a purple cap. The smell of the detergent, folding warm laundry right out of the dryer, love it!
I explained,"Target is right across the way, why don't we go there and just walk around?" We had so much fun. We walked the isles, avoided the drug store section for obvious reasons, and laughed at some of the items on display.
This said a lot about him. I actually like when a guy just goes with it, unplanned. Spontaneous is romantic. Planned or cliche date activities can really get boring. Another thing I liked, he carried the detergent for me. This may seem really small and unimportant, but it's the little things that really matter to me. Chivalry is not dead.
*This post is for you Kelly. xoxo
I explained,"Target is right across the way, why don't we go there and just walk around?" We had so much fun. We walked the isles, avoided the drug store section for obvious reasons, and laughed at some of the items on display.
This said a lot about him. I actually like when a guy just goes with it, unplanned. Spontaneous is romantic. Planned or cliche date activities can really get boring. Another thing I liked, he carried the detergent for me. This may seem really small and unimportant, but it's the little things that really matter to me. Chivalry is not dead.
*This post is for you Kelly. xoxo
Saturday, November 26, 2011
The Cable Guy..
I have a first date tomorrow afternoon with the Cable Guy. We are just meeting for a drink. What I like most about him is he has a great sense of humor. He is understanding my sarcasm, and has witty comebacks. His profile reads he is a widower, and I don't plan on asking him the story. I believe this would be disrespectful. I don't believe in talking about exes on dates, but does this go for exes whom have passed away? This is going to be an interesting date.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
To keep notes, or not to keep notes....
When emailing/texting/speaking to new prospects, should a girl keep notes on each guy so she doesn't get confused? Absolutely. One evening last year I was speaking to two different guys in one night. When I said good night to the second guy, I said the wrong name. He said,"That was the last guy you spoke to tonight."(no laughter) What did I learn from this scenario?
A) Never talk to more than one guy in one night.
B) Schedule the phone dates in advance. Example: "Call me Wednesday night at 8."
C) Keep brief notes on the background and name of each guy. I even create a code name for each, as shown in previous blogs.
When a guy tapers off, I cross them off my list, and look to add on another one. Peace, love, and kisses. :)
A) Never talk to more than one guy in one night.
B) Schedule the phone dates in advance. Example: "Call me Wednesday night at 8."
C) Keep brief notes on the background and name of each guy. I even create a code name for each, as shown in previous blogs.
When a guy tapers off, I cross them off my list, and look to add on another one. Peace, love, and kisses. :)
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