Monday, February 14, 2011

HVD from the Camper...

Since my last post about Camper dude, I have not even spoken to him verbally on the phone.  We have just texted, that's it.  Today I got a "Happy Valentines Day" from him, so I texted back,"same to you, how about we chat sometime?"

CD then proceeded to attempt a text conversation with me, telling me about his weekend.  I haven't heard (literally) from him yet, maybe he's out camping and his phone connection is too choppy.  I appreciate the kind gesture of wishing me a HVD. :)

Sunday, February 13, 2011

Guyfriend one, two and three vs. hoards of women....

Lately, as I have mentioned before, I have a lot of guyfriends.  I am observing up close certain behaviors, and their relationships with other women.  It has been very interesting.  They have no problem sharing this information with me, and are actually proud of their stories, lol.  I really appreciate their input.

I truly believe it might be easier for men to pick up loads of women, one for each day of the week.  I just noticed this trend.  In the past two weeks, GF1 and  GF2 have had eight to ten dates, two or three of which they now see more consistently.  GF3 has his own vibe going.  Observe:

GF1 every night of the week is going out, dating women.  He can't get enough activity.  GF1 has a girl he sees two to three times per week, then he also is seeing this other girl about once a week.  In between, he attends bars and other places, hooking up left and right very easily.

GF2 has two women fighting over him.  He was just seeing this one woman, who he kind of cooled it off with.  Then in the same environment he started seeing another girl.  Girl one picked up on girl two.  While he started speaking and flirting with girl one again,  while girl two waited patiently on the other side of the room drinking her coffee watching.  Girl two already has a boyfriend.  Also, on the weekend, GF2 goes out and hooks up with other women.

GF3 doesn't even try to go out and get women, they just seem to find him, even on facebook.  He just sits back and lets them flock to him in numbers.  He is more choosey with whom he goes out with, and only dates the most worthy candidates.  He could be shopping in a store, then women just come up to him and give him their number.

There is a lot I am not mentioning here, such as other behaviors their "dates" participate in.  Let's just say women are very competitive in the dating world, as we should be.

Is this what dating really is? I was just wondering.  Or is it the Valentines Day rush?? lol  I just love hearing their stories, so I can measure my own dating practices against these hoards of women :)

Saturday, February 12, 2011

The Engineer

One of the best dates so far.  He suggested Ethiopian food, which was different, but awesome.  It gave him the opportunity to shine, I didn't know what to order, so I asked him to order for the both of us.  Great conversation, great atmosphere.  Just the thought of something different combined with great company was really refreshing.  Afterwards, we went for drinks.  A+ for the Engineer, hopefully we'll go out again.  If not, it was just a great date.  I will totally bring my friends to eat Ethiopian, don't knock it until you try it. I told him the story about Salt Licker, he thought it was hilarious.

Friday, February 11, 2011

Date tonight...

New guy tonight, the Engineer.  More information to follow.  TGIF

Sunday, February 6, 2011

New guy on the horizon never called, and H.S. teacher cancelled due to skiing conditions. Moving on :)

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

Maya Angelou: The greatest poem written about single women.


......I say,
It's the fire in my eyes
And the flash of my teeth,
The swing of my waist,
And the joy in my feet.
I'm a woman
Phenomenal woman,
That's me.
Men themselves have wondered
What they see in me.
They try so much
But they can't touch
My inner mystery..........

Tuesday, February 1, 2011

New guy on the horizon, haven't named him yet.

Today I am supposed to get a call from a new guy.  He has no name yet, it will come to me.  He sounds very nice, he emailed me asking what time was good to have a phone conversation.  I am thinking, not a player. A player would just call me, even at 11 pm.

Thank you Lizzy..

My first friend to read my blog.  xoxo  Thank you for your help :)