Sunday, February 13, 2011

Guyfriend one, two and three vs. hoards of women....

Lately, as I have mentioned before, I have a lot of guyfriends.  I am observing up close certain behaviors, and their relationships with other women.  It has been very interesting.  They have no problem sharing this information with me, and are actually proud of their stories, lol.  I really appreciate their input.

I truly believe it might be easier for men to pick up loads of women, one for each day of the week.  I just noticed this trend.  In the past two weeks, GF1 and  GF2 have had eight to ten dates, two or three of which they now see more consistently.  GF3 has his own vibe going.  Observe:

GF1 every night of the week is going out, dating women.  He can't get enough activity.  GF1 has a girl he sees two to three times per week, then he also is seeing this other girl about once a week.  In between, he attends bars and other places, hooking up left and right very easily.

GF2 has two women fighting over him.  He was just seeing this one woman, who he kind of cooled it off with.  Then in the same environment he started seeing another girl.  Girl one picked up on girl two.  While he started speaking and flirting with girl one again,  while girl two waited patiently on the other side of the room drinking her coffee watching.  Girl two already has a boyfriend.  Also, on the weekend, GF2 goes out and hooks up with other women.

GF3 doesn't even try to go out and get women, they just seem to find him, even on facebook.  He just sits back and lets them flock to him in numbers.  He is more choosey with whom he goes out with, and only dates the most worthy candidates.  He could be shopping in a store, then women just come up to him and give him their number.

There is a lot I am not mentioning here, such as other behaviors their "dates" participate in.  Let's just say women are very competitive in the dating world, as we should be.

Is this what dating really is? I was just wondering.  Or is it the Valentines Day rush?? lol  I just love hearing their stories, so I can measure my own dating practices against these hoards of women :)

1 comment:

  1. It sucks being friends with a dude who gets all this game from women out there. Yes, these men are dating millions of women because some women out there say yes to about everything and anyone. Ewww;)

    I like how you mention "competition". Please remember, there is no one to compete with when you KNOW you are the best. Dating isn't competition, it's fate. When you least expect it, you end up with someone you couldn't imagine being without.

    Enjoy your dating experiences and don't measure your dating habits with anyone, especially the undercover whores out there LOL!

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